use tantra to steadiness my root chakra?

I have been led to ask this query as a result of it is one thing my information requested me to give attention to. I would love recommendation on easy methods to steadiness this chakra utilizing tantra, extra particularly with regard to sexual want and self management, and an understanding of how the tantric practises concerned. And should you’re a critical tantric pupil I might like to know which faculty of tantra you practise. Thanks!

Edit: I am feminine if that is related
2nd edit: I am significantly involved in a Kaula type strategy however I do not know a lot about totally different colleges of tantra but.

Multi-Orgasmic Males, A query for you! How do you observe?

Greetings, Tantra group!

I’m a 31-year-old man, nonetheless considerably new to the Tantra world. In the intervening time, I am “coaching” to be multi-orgasmic and on the lookout for a little bit of assist.

I am doing my observe with masturbation in the meanwhile, as I haven’t got a companion at present. I questioned if different males have any recommendation on this space. I’ve learn the Multi-Orgasmic Males and am kind of following Chia’s system.

Most particularly, I’m curious if any of you males use some type of intercourse toy or I suppose they’re referred to as “masturbators?” (simply googled this).

To be extra blunt: Do you utilize something to simulate penetration with a girl with a view to observe? And if that’s the case, what?

Thanks to your steering and perception πŸ™‚

Orgasm with cumming

I meant orgasm WITHOUT cumming.

I learn in a Tantra e-book that ordinary male intercourse appears like this:

Arousal β€”
Consciousness of approaching orgasm β€”
Orgasm with Ejaculation

However the Tantra male intercourse appears like this:

Arousal β€”
Consciousness of approaching orgasm β€”
Orgasm β€”

The orgasm is separate from the ejaculation, and the ejaculation is non-compulsory.

Has anybody skilled this? I’m curious how that is achieved and what it looks like.