Male assist please :)

Good day Tantra.
I’m a 20 yr outdated male finding out Tantra since about 16.
I’m in a fortunately dedicated relationship and virtually all is nicely minus my ego.
Previous to this relationship I might do solo play (no porn merely connecting with that interior anima so to talk.)
So my girlfriend cums about 5 occasions or so once we make love which I really feel wonderful about. Nevertheless even now it has been about 2 weeks since I completed so to talk.
I do know the frustration rising is from my ego, not my religious self however it’s so pervading.
The opposite facet of me feels endowed virtually with extra creativity, and extra of a magnetic attraction from different folks.
I additionally know semen retention to be of nice worth however it is usually such an ideal reduction for me to complete as nicely so to talk.
I am questioning the way you view this predicament and will shift your mindset to assist this course of?
Thanks 🙂

How one can finish intercourse with out ejaculating?


I’ve been making an attempt to have intercourse with out the purpose of ejaculating with my girlfriend. Generally, I’ve succeeded, normally together with her simply being drained and sort of sore after. Different occasions, I simply get so within the second that my primal intuition kicks in and I simply wish to end the job.

Is anybody conscious of any psychological methods, meta-cognitive instruments and methods of dealing with this intuition to be able to carry my progress in sexual yoga additional?


prostate well being

I like tantra intercourse and edging and I maintain sperm about two months. However I feel – for prostate well being previous fluid needs to be eliminated type prostate and vesicles. I exploit prostate therapeutic massage to empty fluids in addition to intesive muscle play at edging to get the fluid leakage (with out cumshot). Is that this good thought?

Any concepts on how we will get that naming catastrophe sorted?

I am into very western neotantra, coming from a skeptical, materialist, irreligious place.

I can completely see that those that are into what they name genuine tantra, are irritated by others utilizing the identical label.

I additionally see that this label won’t simply merely cease for use in that manner, solely as a result of some individuals object to that. Language doesn’t work that manner.

I’m completely ready to make use of a distinct label for my very own follow. I do not give a rattling the way it’s referred to as, actually. All I would like is to debate strategies, discover likeminded individuals, and have a superb time.

However that signifies that there are limitations. There’ll by no means be a sub named /r/vaguelytantrainspiredwesternorgasmicpractice. Individuals have a have to get collectively, and so they can not do this except a reputation has some spice. It has to move a that means, and it has to take action in as few letters as attainable.

I attempted to give you names. However every little thing I got here up with missed this one essential high quality of catchiness.

A brand new title definitely won’t ever be established utterly. Those who depend on the title tantra for his or her livelihood, will all the time preserve it, whether or not thought of legit or not.

It is likely to be attainable that we will set up some naming conference that (most) everybody can reside with, at the least to a point. I’d be up for that!

You probably have any inventive concepts, please do share!