I Noticed Magnificence Tonight…

I noticed magnificence tonight.

Nevertheless, it wasn’t fairly.

I touched a human soul at her very depths, and there was magnificence in layers of exploding colour.

I’m a therapeutic massage therapist, a Tantric therapist if you’ll.

She, the shopper, was broken items. At the very least that’s what she tried to inform me after we met.

A lifetime of individuals telling her what was proper, what was good; what was okay.

A lifetime of people that informed her when and whom to marry, though her husband began beating her earlier than they have been even married.

Individuals who pummeled her physique her till the backs of her knees, as I witnessed after I massaged them, bore the lifetime scars of the switches they used to inform her how nugatory she was.

I noticed magnificence as she was touched by my arms on these very scare, by my arms that, for the primary time in her 40 years of existence, made her notice she was really seen as stunning.

I noticed the sweetness in her eyes as my fingers danced over the tattooed picture of the names of her two youngsters, who had been taken from her for causes the husband had fabricated for his personal twisted profit.

Her moans of delight have been in fact moans of feeling issues in her physique that have been deep and highly effective, however, greater than that they have been moans of pure realization of acceptance. That somebody could be prepared to take the time to the touch her.

To caress her stomach, with a mild contact. To encircle her breasts in a approach that spoke solely love and respect, not lust and self-pleasure. To really feel my fingers dancing round her face, gently kneading the ache away. Not ache of muscular tissues as these of working a leisure marathon, or from figuring out in a health club, however ache from years of being informed she was nugatory.

To the touch in her deepest female place with a mild and respectful caress like that which nobody had given her earlier than.

…the place the place taking was the norm. The place her 2 valuable infants have been introduced into this world, after which taken away from her when her husband discarded her just like the wrapper from his sweet life.

I noticed magnificence tonight.

It wasn’t fairly.

By all of Hollywood’s twisted requirements she was perhaps a “four”.

But it surely was movingly stunning.

As she laid again on the therapeutic massage desk and obtained intentional contact, taking her to locations by no means skilled earlier than. As she understood what it meant to have bliss; what it meant to be crammed with pleasure and love.

…to really feel lips caressing her brow.

…to really feel robust arms that she may belief. Palms into which she may rely to not all of the sudden strike her in ache. To have arms caressing hers and speaking by way of robust “electrical energy” that she may really feel her value.

That she was to be valued.

That she was valuable.

…seeing her smile as she realized what it meant to be touched.

Touched like she had by no means been touched.

Touched for the sake of her pleasure not somebody ripping pleasure from her physique for his or her non permanent “kick”.

Touched not for cash, or from somebody wanting to make use of her physique as a masturbation software.

I noticed magnificence tonight.

It wasn’t fairly.

She didn’t carry the model of American “perfection”. She didn’t measure as much as the stats which can be demanded by a media-crazed tradition. She didn’t even have the Woman-next-door enchantment.

But it surely was deeper.

He magnificence was actual, and it was shifting.


So I problem you: take time as we speak, and search for magnificence.

It’s all round us, all we’ve to do is attain out with a hesitant finger, and contact.

With love.

Magnificence will reply.

And also you too will see magnificence.

Actual magnificence.

Was this a Tantric Expertise?


I am new to this subreddit and that is really my first publish of any form of Reddit.

Awhile again, I might met a lady at a espresso store, began speaking casually for a couple of months and have become mates. The primary time I might really seen her exterior of this espresso store was to assist her transfer from her ex-fiance’s house to her new one. Properly, as you’ll be able to think about, we ended up at her new house and after the whole lot was finished, we had dinner and chatted a few good variety of issues.

At this level, it was very pleasant with no sexual power in any respect current. We touched fingers by chance and there was a powerful power alternate that jolted us each instantly. We have been each floored clearly and mentioned what it was–no one had a clue.

After this, there was a powerful connection. After we kissed, she mentioned that her physique trembled. The primary time we embraced one another, it was not like any expertise I’ve ever had. The one means I can describe it’s that it was virtually as if we have been sharing the identical pool of power and no matter she felt, I felt. It additionally translated to with the ability to intuitively really feel when her power would shift and even know when she was serious about me and even have the ability to share orgasms. These have been essentially the most intense experienes I’ve ever had in my life, but all of them occured with out penetration. I used to be by no means certain what it actually was and curiousity introduced me to this group. A lot Thanks.

In response to the put up about lack of friction in tantric relationships:

I could not reply to the unique put up as a result of it was too outdated however I’ve completely skilled either side of this. When the sexual connection/ chemistry is so sturdy, it actually does really feel like all the things else is simply straightforward. There’s a basic kindness to 1 one other from each companions, a way of safety from inside.

On the flip aspect, when the connection is just not sturdy, there’s a lot extra room for darkness and insecurity. Doubts and a scarcity of validation and connection on the deepest ranges lends itself to the form of neurosis that ultimately undermines the connection. This can be a very actual dynamic. For those who have not skilled that form of connection they do not perceive. For those who have, it is unimaginable to be happy with mediocre intercourse. It may be bodily utterly purposeful… however completely devoid of the Devine.

Skilled one thing odd throughout intercourse, was it a tantric expertise?

Hey all! In the present day whereas making love with my boyfriend I skilled one thing very new and really unusual. I figured that right here of all locations could be the very best to ask for opinions and any data on my expertise. Thanks in superior for any replies!

Through the intercourse at the moment whereas I began to orgasm I felt an emotion bubble up from deep inside me, although I am unable to say what emotion it was as a result of I would by no means felt it earlier than. It was a combination of pure pleasure and a really unhappy longing feeling that just about felt slightly “death-like” if that makes any sense. As my orgasm continued I felt this emotion proceed to bubble up by my physique (in direction of my head) after which as my orgasm ended, it felt as if the emotion was launched by my mouth. Instantly after my orgasm I began to cry uncontrollably. At first it was quiet whimpering, however I felt such reduction to cry (I am a grasp of bottling my emotions to the purpose that once I get unhappy my thoughts robotically shuts it down and I overlook about it, so I not often cry like this) that my whimpers shortly developed to wailing that I could not management. Midway by the tears I started to snort as properly, and I used to be laughing and crying on the similar time. Feeling each pleasure and sorrow circulate by me. This crying/laughing match lasted about 30 to 45 seconds and had a really distinctly divine feeling that was comforting and soothing. After the match was over I felt completely different, however in a great way. I felt very relieved, and virtually bodily lighter, like I would eliminated a really giant tumor from my abdomen or one thing. I seen that I additionally felt slightly extra like myself once more truly. (I’ve had a tough couple months, and it is triggered me to have a lot stronger and extra frequent anxiousness assaults currently.)

Once I googled this I discovered little to no useful data apart from it being as a consequence of an enormous endorphin launch, however I do know that this was a lot larger than that. I’ve by no means felt such reduction earlier than.

Any data, opinions, hyperlinks, or anecdotal Data could be tremendously appreciated! Thanks!