I rely myself as a tantrika of kinds, however not a nofapper. I by no means was hooked on porn (by no means discovered all of it too interesting). I received into the “chastity” kink from the bdsm facet of issues, discovered it fascinating after which received into tantra, meditation and yoga. I don’t precisely “abstain” from porn, I simply do not typically watch it.
In impact, I didn’t masturbate “to completion” for four weeks now, and in all probability I’ll extend this for fairly some time. I do have intercourse with my girlfriend, and when there’s sufficient time, I interact in critical tantric practices which contain lots of edging. In a approach, I am in fixed masturbation (whilst we communicate, I can interact in arousal simply by respiration), whereas alternatively I don’t do any of the act that nofappers dread.
What, in your thoughts, is comparable between the 2, and what’s fully completely different? Am I a secretly a nofapper? Is one method higher than the opposite? Is it for various folks, or for everybody, simply at completely different levels?