My spouse and I are in our 50’s (we’re middle-aged, not historical), I am somewhat spherical within the stomach and he or she’s somewhat spherical within the backside. She’d like to start out attempting Tantric intercourse and the primary steps appear to contain entering into the Yab Yum place along with her on my lap. She’s somewhat apprehensive that we are able to even do that. I might like to have the ability to calm her nerves somewhat and easily counsel a modification if wanted. Perhaps I am simply looking on the unsuitable phrases, however Google is giving me an enormous, fats (no pun supposed) zero on modifications for this pose, however certainly there have to be one thing?
Can anybody please supply any solutions on the right way to modify the pose for complete noobs on their first enterprise into this pose, for folks with a rounder physique?